Concerned about a child? Call us on 0800 596 857 or Email help@cdass.com
Concerned about a child? Call us on 0800 596 857 or Email help@cdass.com
#YourVoiceMatters
Support for Children & Young People
Did you know?
What CDASS does for Children & Young People
We put your voice FIRST when it comes to domestic violence.
We support you to open up to try and TALK about living with domestic violence at home.
With your permission CDASS wants to make sure your Mum and the Abuser understands how you feel.
We want you to feel listened to and included.
We want to help you find ways of coping with your feelings.
We want adults to understand how you are feeling about the domestic violence.
We want you to understand why domestic violence happens and that it not only happens to you.
Talking about ‘the domestic violence’ in your childhood might help you to feel better before you grow up to be an adult.
‘TALKING REALLY HELPS’ – A POEM
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Did you know that talking helps, because some children keep things to themselves.
They see things at home, they feel angry or sad.
Shouting, arguing between their mum and their dad.
Or it could be other adults that argue and fight
But let me tell you something, it’s all wrong, it’s so not right.
Sometimes you see them or hear them in your bed.
You’re so sick of the shouting, cos it’s hurting your head.
The next day its quiet and your mum, she looks sad
And you start to feel angry and not like your dad.
You wish they would be kind and not say nasty things.
You wish they would stop fighting and the police would stop coming.
You wish that you could tell someone, what going on at home.
But you’ve been told ‘to say nothing’ so feel so all alone.
Inside you’re sad and lonely and don’t know what to do.
Last night you saw it all again, tomorrow you have to go to school.
You try your best to be normal but inside you’re really scared
What if your daddy hurts your mum again, what if you are not there?
But now you have someone to talk to
Now you can say how you feel
Now you can come to Talking Really Helps
Where you talk and we listen as your feelings are real
Don’t worry we will help you, as that’s what we love to do
And we hope by the time you finish Talking Really Helps
You will be a happier and a much better YOU.
Written by
Sandra Johnson – March 2021