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#YourVoiceMatters

Support for Children & Young People

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What is Domestic

Violence?

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What can CDASS do for me?

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What do Children & Young People say about CDASS?

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Need to speak

to someone?

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Did you know?

Worldwide figures show that men abuse women the most.

What CDASS does
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What CDASS does for Children & Young People

We put your voice FIRST when it comes to domestic violence.

We support you to open up to try and TALK about living with domestic violence at home.

With your permission CDASS wants to make sure your Mum and the Abuser understands how you feel.

We want you to feel listened to and included.

We want to help you find ways of coping with your feelings.

We want adults to  understand how you are feeling about  the domestic violence.

We want you to understand why domestic violence happens and that it not only happens to you.

Talking about ‘the domestic violence’ in your childhood might help you to feel better before you grow up to be an adult.

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‘TALKING REALLY HELPS’ – A POEM

 

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Did you know that talking helps, because some children keep things to themselves.

They see things at home, they feel angry or sad.

Shouting, arguing between their mum and their dad.

Or it could be other adults that argue and fight

But let me tell you something, it’s all wrong, it’s so not right.

 

Sometimes you see them or hear them in your bed.

You’re so sick of the shouting, cos it’s hurting your head.

The next day its quiet and your mum, she looks sad

And you start to feel angry and not like your dad.

 

You wish they would be kind and not say nasty things.

You wish they would stop fighting and the police would stop coming.

You wish that you could tell someone, what going on at home.

But you’ve been told ‘to say nothing’ so feel so all alone.

 

Inside you’re sad and lonely and don’t know what to do.

Last night you saw it all again, tomorrow you have to go to school.

You try your best to be normal but inside you’re really scared

What if your daddy hurts your mum again, what if you are not there?

 

But now you have someone to talk to

Now you can say how you feel

Now you can come to Talking Really Helps

Where you talk and we listen as your feelings are real

Don’t worry we will help you, as that’s what we love to do

And we hope by the time you finish Talking Really Helps

You will be a happier and a much better YOU.

 

Written by

Sandra Johnson – March 2021

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CDASS can help.

Childline

0800 11111

Chat with us

Via our chat feature

NSPCC

0808 800 50000

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